Life Controlling Issues

My husband and I ran into another minister the other day and as ministers do, they started talking a mile a minute while his wife and I sat smiling.  They were sharing stories of what was going on in their lives and churches.

My husband began talking about a discussion group that he has started called Discovering Recovery and how difficult it has been to deal with three different types of issues at the same time.  The group is reaching out to addicts in recovery, family and friends of those struggling, and people who are having difficulties overcoming.

It is always a very lively and interesting conversation among the groups.  This other minister said that he calls these issues Life Controlling Issues.  I thought that was a great way to explain what we are dealing with.

Life Controlling Issues:  We all have them.  Some life controlling issues might be drugs and alcohol but could also be food, gambling, pride, self-esteem, health, depression, anxiety, exercise, even pets, marriage, finances, social media, etc.

Anything that controls your life and takes so much time that your faith in God wains or you don't have time or energy to go to church or pray and have a deep relationship with God is controlling your life TOO much. For this reason I gave up Facebook which might seem weird to some of you but it was taking up too much of my time.  I know some who spend hours looking things up on the internet and watching talk shows and news.  To some these things are detrimental to their faith.  They only cause fear and anxiety.  God will speak to you and you will feel it in your soul if you need to give up some of these things and spend more time in positive pursuits.

God comes first!

I know that some of these are truly addictions that are not easily overcome and require a great deal of work.  But they can be overcome with God's help and the many programs that are available.  Some of these are dependencies, i.e. things that give you comfort and that you just don't want to  give up.  Some, like health issues, may be somewhat out of your control.

God comes first!

God has promised that He will meet your needs.  He will stand by you.  He will forgive you.  He will take care of you IF you trust in Him.

Whatever issues you are struggling with, I encourage you to do the leg work that it takes to overcome, be it doctors, programs, diets, groups, medication, what have you.  AND most importantly to trust in God, to commune with Him everyday and to have FAITH that He will help you overcome.

Questions:
What are your Life Controlling Issues?
What are you doing to overcome?
How can you have more faith in God?

What the bible says about God meeting all of our needs.  I would encourage you to read the verses in their entirety  and know that everything is in God's hands if you love and follow Him.  His plan for you is so much greater than you know. 

Proverbs 28:13 ESV

Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.

Philippians 4:19 ESV 

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that having all sufficiency in all things at all times, you may abound in every good work.

1 John 1:9 ESV 

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

James 4:6 ESV 

But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

Romans 10:10 ESV 

For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.

John 14:6 ESV 

Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

1 John 4:1 ESV 

Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world.

Now the Spirit expressly says that in later times some will depart from the faith by devoting themselves to deceitful spirits and teachings of demons,

Romans 5:8 ESV 

But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

Matthew 6:33 ESV 

But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.

2 Peter 1:3 ESV 

His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence,

Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

James 1:5 ESV 

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

And deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery.

For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.

1 Peter 5:8 ESV 

Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.

For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps.

James 4:7 ESV 

Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

James 4:4 ESV

You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.

For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions,

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent, equipped for every good work.

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness,

Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted,

Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.

O Timothy, guard the deposit entrusted to you. Avoid the irreverent babble and contradictions of what is falsely called “knowledge,”

For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.

Now the Spirit expressly says that in later times some will depart from the faith by devoting themselves to deceitful spirits and teachings of demons, through the insincerity of liars whose consciences are seared,

First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, ...

But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.

Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.

And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.

That according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being,

Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.

But I am afraid that as the serpent deceived Eve by his cunning, your thoughts will be led astray from a sincere and pure devotion to Christ.

He who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will supply and multiply your seed for sowing and increase the harvest of your righteousness.

For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death.

In their case the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ's sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.

The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned.

I appeal to you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine that you have been taught; avoid them.

Romans 10:9 ESV 

Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Romans 5:12 ESV 

Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned—

Romans 3:23 ESV 

For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,

Romans 3:11 ESV 

No one understands; no one seeks for God.

Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God's kindness is meant to lead you to repentance?

John 20:27 ESV 

Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here, and see my hands; and put out your hand, and place it in my side. Do not disbelieve, but believe.”

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. Early in the morning he came again to the temple. All the people came to him, and he sat down and taught them. The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing her in the midst they said to him, “Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery. Now in the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. So what do you say?” ...

Mark 11:24 ESV 

Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

That same day Jesus went out of the house and sat beside the sea. And great crowds gathered about him, so that he got into a boat and sat down. And the whole crowd stood on the beach. And he told them many things in parables, saying: “A sower went out to sow. And as he sowed, some seeds fell along the path, and the birds came and devoured them. Other seeds fell on rocky ground, where they did not have much soil, and immediately they sprang up, since they had no depth of soil, ...

And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell.

Matthew 7:7 ESV 

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.

Matthew 6:34 ESV 

“Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

Matthew 6:32 ESV 

For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all.

Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

Matthew 6:24 ESV 

“No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?

Isaiah 55:8 ESV 

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.

Surely there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and never sins.

Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.

Proverbs 2:6 ESV 

For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding;

Psalm 24:1 ESV 

A Psalm of David. The earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof, the world and those who dwell therein,

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